女孩當(dāng)自強(qiáng)演講稿(精選3篇)
女孩當(dāng)自強(qiáng)演講稿 篇1
同學(xué)們:
我今天演講的內(nèi)容關(guān)于自立自強(qiáng)。
驀然回首,寒窗十余載,衣帶漸寬,終揮別六月,贏得碩果累累。一路風(fēng)雨兼程,走進(jìn)許多人夢(mèng)寐以求的大學(xué)。古人云:“有志者,事競(jìng)成。”足見(jiàn)人不可一日無(wú)志,綜觀天下名人,不但自己有鵬程萬(wàn)里之志,而且諄諄教誨人們要有理想,有志向,有抱負(fù)。
人人都想成功,可成功女神并不垂青所有的人,但我相信所有參與,嘗試過(guò)的人即使沒(méi)有成功,他們的世界卻不是一份平淡,不是一片空白。世界只有一個(gè)天才貝多芬,也只有一個(gè)神通莫扎特,更多的人是通過(guò)嘗試,通過(guò)毅力化平淡為輝煌的。人能走多遠(yuǎn),不要問(wèn)雙腳,要問(wèn)意志,人能攀多高,不要問(wèn)雙手,要問(wèn)志向。有志登山頂,無(wú)志站山腳。我們要像蝸牛那樣憑著自己的耐力默默前行,即使失敗了,這一生也會(huì)因這一路的風(fēng)雨兼程而變得更加精彩,因?yàn)橹灰覀冊(cè)?jīng)擁有又何必在乎天長(zhǎng)地久。我們應(yīng)在風(fēng)雨中自強(qiáng)不息,我們應(yīng)在雨中在風(fēng)中展翅飛揚(yáng)!
大學(xué)里的我們渴望獲得才華,收獲才能,讓別人認(rèn)可自己,引領(lǐng)自己走向成功。胡適先生說(shuō)過(guò):“學(xué)問(wèn)是鑄器的工具,放棄了學(xué)問(wèn),便摧毀了自己!比欢覀冃@中出現(xiàn)有背于學(xué)校主流文化的現(xiàn)象,卻不由得讓我們重新進(jìn)行了思考。我們是否還懷有拼搏、收獲的心對(duì)待生活。
我們每天都沉浸在網(wǎng)絡(luò)與手機(jī)的世界里。我們是否想過(guò)我們每天收獲了什么,我們是否能知道這樣做對(duì)自己、對(duì)同學(xué)、對(duì)學(xué)校有多大影響,斷送了自己的學(xué)業(yè),剝奪了同學(xué)學(xué)習(xí)的機(jī)會(huì),影響了學(xué)校的學(xué)風(fēng)建設(shè),現(xiàn)在的社會(huì)是一個(gè)競(jìng)爭(zhēng)的社會(huì),沒(méi)有過(guò)硬的本領(lǐng),沒(méi)有豐富的知識(shí),是無(wú)法在社會(huì)上立足的。
生活腐化、追求時(shí)尚、崇尚名牌、玩物喪志、沉溺于網(wǎng)絡(luò)世界,學(xué)術(shù)精神的失落,道德低下、缺乏信仰、缺乏毅力、缺乏進(jìn)取精神和承受力。
我們是該醒醒的時(shí)候了,不要被習(xí)慣所掩蓋,被時(shí)間所迷惑,被惰性所消磨。讓我們問(wèn)問(wèn)自己是否對(duì)得起自己含辛茹苦的父母。如果父母知道我們?cè)趯W(xué)校是這樣的表現(xiàn),他們會(huì)是多么的傷心,我們應(yīng)拿起筆算算我們需要花費(fèi)多少錢,我們是否對(duì)得起父母為我們付出的一切。
現(xiàn)在到了我們?cè)撓氲臅r(shí)候了,羅馬并非一蹴而就,為了自己,為了畢業(yè)以后找到好的工作,我們是時(shí)候該充實(shí)自己,完善自己了。
俗話說(shuō)“無(wú)志之人常立志,有志之人立大志!绷⒅臼浅晒Φ膭(dòng)力,能讓我們?yōu)閷?shí)現(xiàn)目標(biāo)而艱苦奮斗,憑借堅(jiān)忍不拔的信念屹立在成功的顛峰眺望遠(yuǎn)方,立志貴在堅(jiān)持,立志貴在立大志!而立大志,莫過(guò)于立志成才,照亮祖國(guó)未來(lái)的希望。
立報(bào)國(guó)之志,學(xué)報(bào)國(guó)之才,踐報(bào)國(guó)之行。自強(qiáng)、立志、報(bào)國(guó)不是喊口號(hào),而是要有實(shí)際行動(dòng),無(wú)需遲疑,現(xiàn)在就行動(dòng)吧!我們的未來(lái),就需要我們自己牢牢將其把握在手中!或許只需要在勇氣上踏出一小步,我們就在立志成才上踏出了一大步!從今天起,不,就是此刻,身為學(xué)生的我們定下自己的努力方向,一步一個(gè)腳印走好為祖國(guó)奉獻(xiàn)的每一步吧!
女孩當(dāng)自強(qiáng)演講稿 篇2
Be a brave girl So few years ago,i did something really brave,or some would say really stupid. I run for Congress! For years ,i had existed safely behind the scenes in politics, as a funderaiser,or a organizer,but in my heart ,i always wanted to run. The sitting congresswoman had been in my district since 1992. She had never lost a race ,and no one had even run against her in a Democratic primary. But in my mind ,this is my way to make a difference ,to disrupt the status quo. The polls ,however,told a very different story .my pollsters told me that i was crazy to run,that there was no way that i could win,but i run anyway, and in 20xx, i became a upstart in a New York city congressional race. I swore i was going tor win . i had the endorsement from the New York Daily News. The Wall Street Journal snapped pictures of me on election day and CNBC called it one of the hottest races in the country. I raised money from everyone i knew, including indian aunties that were just so happy an indian girl was running. But on election day ,the polls were right,and i only got 19% of the vote and the same papers that said i was a rising political star now said i wasted 1.3 million dollars on 6,321 votes. Do not do the maths. It was humulating. Now before you got the wrong idea this is not a talk about the importance of failure nor is it about leaning in. I tell you the story of how i ran for Congress because i was 33 years old and it was first time in my entire life that i had done something that was turely brave, where i did not worry about being perfect. And i am not alone:so many women talk to tell me that they gravitate towards careers and professions that they know they are going to be perfect in, and it is no wonder why, most girls are taught to avoid risk and failure. We are taught to smile pretty, play it safe ,get all A‟s. Boys ,on the other hand ,are taught to play rough,swing high ,crawl to the top of the monkey bars and then just jump off headfirst. And by the time they are adults,whether they are negotiating a raise or asking someone out on a date, they are habituated to take risk after risk. They are rewarded for it . It is often said in silicon valley, no one even takes you seriously unless you have had two failed start-ups. In other words, we are raising our girls to be perfect,and we are raising our boys to be brave. Some people worry about our federal deficit ,but i ,i worry about our bravery deficit. Our economy ,our society ,we are just losing out because we are not raising our girls to be brave. The bravery deficit is why women are underrepresented in STEM,in C-suites, in boardrooms,in Congress and pretty much everywhere you look. In the 1980s, psychologist Carol Dweck looked at how bright fifth graders handed an assignment that was too difficult for them. She found that bright girls were quick to give up. The higher the IQ, the more likely they were to give up. Boys on the other hand ,found the diffficult material to be a challenge. They found it energizing. They were more likey to redouble their efforts. What is going on ? Well ,at the fifth grade level, girls routinel y outperform boys in every subject,including math and science. So it is not a question of ability. The difference is in how boys and girls approach a challenge. And it does not just end in fifth grade. An HP report found that men will apply for a job if they meet 60% of the qualifications, but women ,women will apply if they meet 100% of the qualifications.
This study usually invoked as evidence that,well ,women need a little more confidence, but i think it is evidence that women have been socailized to aspire to perfection and they are overly cautious. And even when we are ambitious, even when we are leaning in ,that socialization of perfection has caused us to take less risks in our careers. And so those 600,000 jobs that are open right now, in computer and tech ,women are being left behind and it means our economy is being left behind on all the innovation and problems women would solve if they were socialized to be brave instead socialized to be perfect. So in 20xx, i atarted a company to teach girls to code, and what i found is that by teaching them to code, i had socialized them to be brave. Coding ,is an endless process of trial and error, of trying to get the right command in the right place, with sometimes just a semicolon ,making the difference between success and failure. Code breaks and then it falls apart,and it often takes, many many times until that magical moment. When what you are trying to build comes to life. It requires perseverance. It requires imperfection. We immediately see in our program ,our girls are fear of not getting it right,of not being perfect. Every Girls Who Code teacher tells me the same story. During the first week ,when the girs are learning how to code,a student will call her over and she will say “i do not know what code to write” . The teacher looked at her screen and she will see a blank text editor. If she did not know any better ,she would think that her student spent past 20 minutes just staring at the screen. But if she presses undo a few times she will say that her student wrote code and then deleted it. She tried and she came close,but she did not get it exactly right. Instead of showing the progress that she made, she‟d rather show nothing at all. Perfection or bust. It turns out that our girls are really good at coding, but it is not enough just to teach them to code. My friend lev brie ,who is a professor at the university of Columbia and teaches into java, tells me about his office hours with computer science students. When the guys are struggling with an assignment,they will come in and say”professor, there is something wrong with my code”. The girls will come in and say “professor, there is something wrong with me.” we have to begin to undo the socialization of perfection,but we „ve got to combine it with building a sisterhood that lets girls know that they are not alone. Because trying harder is not going to fix a broken system. I can not tell you how many women tell me “i am afraid to raise my hand,i am afraid to ask a question,because i do not want to be the only one who does not understand,the only one who is struggling. ” when we teach girls to be brave and we have a supportive network cheering them on,they will build incredible things,and i see this every day. Take for instance, two of our high school students,who built a game called tampon run. Yes Tampon Run ,to fight against the menstruation taboo and sexism in gaming. Or the Syrian refugee who dared to show her love for her new country by building an app to help Americans get to the polls. Or a 16-year -old girl who built an algorithm to help detect whether a cancer is benign or malignant in the off chance that she can save her daddy‟s life because he has cancer. These are just three of thousands, thousands of girs have been socialized to be imperfect,who have learned to keep trying, who have learned perserverance. And whether they became coders or the next Hilllary Clinton or Beyonce,they will not defer their dreams. And those dreams have never been more important for our country.
For the American economy ,for any economy to grow, to turely innovate, we can not leave behind half our population, we have to socialize our girls to be comfortable with imperfection, and we have got to do it now. We can not wait for them to learn how to be brave like i did when i was 33 years old. We have teach them to be brave in schools and early in their carers. When it has the most potential to impact their lives and the lives of others and we have to show them that they will be loved and accepted not for being perfect but for being courageous. And i need each of you to tell every young woman you know --your sister ,your niece ,your employee,your colleague to be comfortable with imperfection, because when we teach girls to be imperfect,and we help them leverage it ,we will bulid a movement of young women who are brave and who will build a better world for themselves and for each and every one of us. Thank you.!
女孩當(dāng)自強(qiáng)演講稿 篇3
根據(jù)男女的性格心態(tài)及戀愛(ài)中的一些實(shí)際情況,主要有以下法則:
1.最好不要經(jīng)別人介紹,要自己去追,F(xiàn)在的青年人尤其是年輕的姑娘談戀愛(ài),喜歡直接接觸或自己本來(lái)已認(rèn)識(shí)并互有好感,然后相互萌生了愛(ài)意。這種戀愛(ài)方式因?yàn)槭莾蓚(gè)人直接接觸,雙方都會(huì)很投入,也便于直接了解。
2.不要四面出擊,用情不專。任何情況下,愛(ài)情永遠(yuǎn)都只屬于兩個(gè)人的。任何一位女孩子可以原諒你的冒昧和魯莽,卻不能原諒你的些許不忠實(shí)和“虛情假意”,男孩子也是如此。如果你“腳踩兩只船,又想到湖北,又想到湖南”,最多只夠格在愛(ài)的堤岸上徘徊。
3.不要追別人的女朋友。在任何情況下,都不要去追已成為別人女友的女孩這不光是道德的表現(xiàn),也是一個(gè)人高尚情懷的體現(xiàn)。
4.不要若即若離,含混不清。沒(méi)有人受得了時(shí)冷時(shí)熱的折磨。也沒(méi)有姑娘愿意長(zhǎng)期跟你“捉迷藏”。應(yīng)該是立場(chǎng)堅(jiān)定,旗幟鮮明,始終一貫。如果說(shuō)女孩子多以“愛(ài)惜芳心不輕吐”為守則是事實(shí)的話,那么男孩子則都應(yīng)以“敞開(kāi)心扉給人看”為行動(dòng)準(zhǔn)繩。
5.不要瞎吹自己的能耐,給人以華而不實(shí)的感覺(jué)。你的本事和能耐不是你吹出來(lái)的,而是對(duì)方“稱”出來(lái)的。時(shí)間一長(zhǎng)了,你有多少斤兩人家自會(huì)有數(shù)。倒不如先吹吹別的,如文藝作品、幽默小品、薩達(dá)姆和愛(ài)國(guó)者導(dǎo)彈等等。
6.不要當(dāng)“問(wèn)題男人”,過(guò)于謙謙君子。對(duì)于女性來(lái)說(shuō),假如你總是堅(jiān)持問(wèn)了再做,那么你一輩子也得不到你所希望的回答。在時(shí)機(jī)成熟、氛圍營(yíng)造得差不多的時(shí)候,該做的你就大膽地去做。不能事事請(qǐng)示,讓她覺(jué)得你酸而無(wú)主見(jiàn)。
7.不要讓對(duì)方有迫其就范的感覺(jué)。說(shuō)話做事既要投其所好,又要注意場(chǎng)合,不可簡(jiǎn)單粗暴、舉止輕浮失當(dāng)。當(dāng)姑娘家發(fā)覺(jué)你以一己之念為念,對(duì)她的情緒不管不顧時(shí),既容易在當(dāng)時(shí)產(chǎn)生逆反心理,又難免在事后滋生不良心緒。
8.不要對(duì)姑娘百依百順,像個(gè)仆人。如果你對(duì)姑娘百依百順,言聽(tīng)計(jì)從,像個(gè)跟屁蟲(chóng)或奴仆,不僅旁人看了不順眼,恐怕姑娘自己也難以產(chǎn)生敬意和自豪感,也覺(jué)得難以終身相托。任何時(shí)候都要保持男人的本色,因?yàn)槭郎虾苌儆兄魅苏嬲龕?ài)她的仆人愛(ài)得發(fā)狂的。
9.不可忽視與你所追的姑娘要好的伙伴。如果你不被姑娘的女朋友們所接受,你大抵也難以被姑娘本人所喜歡,因?yàn)榕⒆雍茏⒁?ldquo;鄰里關(guān)系”,很會(huì)給人以面子。倘使有一天,姑娘身邊的朋友都對(duì)你不理不睬,就說(shuō)明你已經(jīng)“危險(xiǎn)”了。