愛不需要理由Love Needs No Reason
Love Needs No Reason
For a long time,I have been seeking an answer to this:What is love and what do people want to get from love?
Once I, together with several classmates, visited a teacher who enjoyed a perfect marriage. We just wanted to know the reason for their mutual affection. The teacher smiled and said:"In fact, neither of us is perfect. It is love that brings us courage and determination to seek each other＇s perfection. But day by day, we were surprised to see the imperfect side. Consequently,we decided to stand out the crisis." I was so touched by his words. Although it was raining heavily outside when we left his home, I could not help feeling excited.
It was a wonderful experience, just like someone groping in the darkness suddenly catching sight of a light far away.
My parents have been sharing their time for two decades,but I never saw them quarrelling. Curious, I seized an opportunity to ask my mother. She was knitting a sweater at that moment while the rest of my family members were watching TV.When asked, she somehow flushed in the face. "Ask your Dad",she said. I went to my father and raised the same question. To my surprise , my father, who was always awesome, felt embarrassed and replied in the same way:"ask your Mom."
The difference between the answers made by the teacher and my parents totally confused me. After entering the large gardennamed "love", I was so amazed to discover that each flower was getting off her unique fragrance. I forgot what to do. I was lost.
Perhaps, love really needs no reason. How can you ask a cactus: "Why do you choose the desert rather than fertile land?"How can you ask a fig: "Why do you prefer bearing fruits to blooming?" How can you ask arose, "How can you enjoy such a calm life in the greenhouse?"... What is known to us all is merely that once be loved, a cactus can bloom ever in a desert; a figcan bear fruits without blossoming; a rose can survive calmly anywhere. When love comes to you, nothing can be impossible.
Are you still familiar with these feelings? You wake up at sunrise, you feel happy. You breathe the fresh air, you feel happy. You touch the lights sent by the sun, you feel happy. You walk on your way home, you see a sparrow, you wander in the garden... Happiness follows you everywhere. And you know,all of these were just because a fascinating smile given by him/her.
Do you still remember your first lover? We met, knew,liked, loved but at last broke up. We cannot forget the words,"I love you", "I hate you" , "forget me" and maybe someday"how are you?" , "sorry", "thank you". If God is kind enough to make you meet again, what will you say? Perhaps only the simple words above. And I think we＇ll say nothing but smiling.We are so grateful for what time gets us to know Love needs no reason.
簡 評(píng)
愛是什么?什么是愛?多少年來，癡男怨女上下求索，難得其解。這是一個(gè)謎一樣的問題，這個(gè)問題永遠(yuǎn)沒有標(biāo)準(zhǔn)答案。老師的經(jīng)驗(yàn)不同于父母的，父母的經(jīng)驗(yàn)又不同于我們的。所以每個(gè)人只好自己用心去體驗(yàn)。本文作者，一位剛?cè)霅矍槭サ畹呐瑢W(xué)，希望能找到幸福的真諦，文章寫得不錯(cuò)，尤其是第四段中對(duì)父母的描寫比較傳神有趣：面對(duì)兒女關(guān)于愛情的提問，母親面紅耳赤；一向嚴(yán)肅的父親也頗為尷尬。但是這位作者沒有注意段落的銜接：第三段與第四段之間就缺少過渡。后面的部分語言較美，但思想的統(tǒng)一性有待加強(qiáng)。
(點(diǎn)評(píng)教師：汪中平)