過度關(guān)愛對(duì)孩子不利
Nowadays, in China, more and more family only have one child because of the one child policy. Parents are taking more attention to their children than before. With the economic condition is becoming better, parents are tend to put the best things for their children, they want them to receive the best education, hope them will be able to become the useful gift of country and society. However, i think too much care can be harmful to children.
現(xiàn)在在中國，越來越多的家庭因?yàn)楠?dú)生政策而只有一個(gè)孩子。父母比以前更加重視孩子了。隨著經(jīng)濟(jì)條件變好，父母喜歡把最好的給他們的孩子，他們想要孩子們接受到最好的教育，希望他們以后能成為對(duì)國家和社會(huì)有用的人。然而，我認(rèn)為太多的關(guān)愛會(huì)對(duì)孩子不利。
In the first place, i would like to take an example to support my opinion. A father who recently be admitted to the same university with his daughter, he said he accompanied his daughter to study together since she was in middle school, and now they are going to the same university, which makes the father very happy. On contrary, his daughter seems not that delight, she said she had already got tired of her father’s companion, she wants freedom and independent.
第一，我想舉個(gè)例子來證明我的觀點(diǎn)。有位父親最近和他的女兒被同一所大學(xué)錄取，他說他從女兒初中開始就一直陪讀，現(xiàn)在他們要進(jìn)同一所大學(xué)了，這讓父親非常高興。相反的，他的女兒看起來不怎么開心，她說她已經(jīng)厭倦了父親的陪伴，她想要自由和獨(dú)立。
In the second place, parents like to make their children signed up for a lots after-school program, they think the more skills their children know the more useful for their growth. Children have to take art, English, piano after school. According to the overload situation, children already have too much homework to do after school; the interested class makes them have less time to relax themselves. They might have short-sightedness or depressed.
第二，父母喜歡給他們的孩子報(bào)各種興趣班，他們覺得孩子懂的技能越多，對(duì)他們的成長越有用。孩子必須在放學(xué)后去學(xué)美術(shù)，英語和鋼琴。根據(jù)現(xiàn)在作業(yè)超負(fù)荷的現(xiàn)狀，孩子在課后已經(jīng)有很多家庭作業(yè)了，興趣班讓他們更加沒有時(shí)間去放松自己。他們可能會(huì)得近視眼，或者抑郁癥。
In a word, even though the parents thought it is good for their children, but they have to consider how much pressure that the children can suffer. The best for children is to let them chose what they really want and give them some personal space.
總而言之，盡管父母認(rèn)為那些是對(duì)孩子有益的，但是他們應(yīng)該考慮一下孩子能承受多少的壓力。最好就是讓孩子選他們真正想學(xué)的，還有給他們點(diǎn)私人空間。