Sort your problems.
把問題排序
Let's face it: There's a lot of bad stuff in the world. It can be a scary place, and we've all got problems we would be a whole lot happier without. But experiment with putting your problems into perspective -- or boxes: That breakup? Missing a really important deadline at work? Hurt feelings? Losing someone close to you? Probably worth some self-pity. That stain on your shirt? Not so much. Let go of what you can. The less negative, the more room there is to be happy.
讓我們面對現(xiàn)實(shí)吧:世界上有很多不好的事情。它會(huì)讓人感到恐慌。我們都有問題,要是沒有的話,會(huì)幸福地多。但是試一試用長遠(yuǎn)的眼光來看這些問題:分手?工作時(shí)錯(cuò)過了重要的截止時(shí)間?受傷的感覺?失去了親近的人?或許值得自憐自哀。襯衫上的污漬?那就不值得了。能放手就放手。負(fù)面因素越少,開心的空間就越大。