Change our “rules” for being happy

　　改變自己的“規(guī)定”獲得幸福

　　What rule do we have to be happy? What has to happen for us to feel successful? Is it in our control? If it isn’t then we might be setting ourselves up for failure. By rules I mean the set of circumstances that must be present for us to feel accomplished.

　　什么時(shí)候會(huì)感到幸福?發(fā)生什么樣的事情會(huì)讓我們覺得成功?這在我們的掌控之中么?如果不是，那我們也許就把自己推向了失敗的不歸路。所謂的規(guī)定，我指的是一些必須能讓我們感到成功的特定場(chǎng)景。

　　We have to create rules that serve us. We have to live by rules that are within our control. Here are some of my rules: I am successful when I grow and improve. I am successful when I give my very best.

　　我們需要為自己制造規(guī)定，我們需要遵循這些可以由自己掌控的規(guī)則。比如我的規(guī)則是：只要我成長(zhǎng)進(jìn)步就是成功，只要我付出努力就是成功。