埋怨-Complaint

　　Complaint

　　Complaint is common in life. There are always things not satisfactory to people. It is easy to criticize and find fault with others. The nagging person is always complaining. He complains about his leader, his colleagues and even his wife. His grievnnee and grumbling makes both himself and others unhappy. Complaint mends no holes. Instead it results ha hostility between beth the giver and the receiver of the complaint.

　　The man who is a failure is loud of picking holes in others. A man of success is always praising others for their merits, for he sees only the strong points of others and learns from their strong points to enlarge his own ego.

　　The man who complains only sees the weak points of others and he thinks that he himself is perfect. So he learns little or nothing from others, and, by and by. he loses his own superiority.

　　What we should do is the opposite of complaint-- praise. An ounce of praise is worth a pound of criticism. A man of good wishes always respects others and appreciates their work and efforts. He congratulates others on their achievements and succeoses. He feels happy about them as it they were his own. He speaks highly of them. In return, he himself is respected and appreciated.

　　So, let us complain less and praise more, in order to make our world full of good wishes.

　　埋怨

　　埋怨在生活中很常見(jiàn)。人們總有不滿意的事情，批評(píng)別人，找茬兒是容易的事。挑剔的人總在埋怨領(lǐng)導(dǎo)、同事、甚至自己的妻子，使自己和別人都不高興。埋怨毫無(wú)益處，只是給雙方帶來(lái)敵意。

　　失敗者總是挑別人的刺，而成功者總是表?yè)P(yáng)別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn)。他看到別人的長(zhǎng)處，學(xué)習(xí)別人的長(zhǎng)處，增強(qiáng)自己的能力。

　　愛(ài)埋怨的人只看別人的缺點(diǎn)，只有自己最完美。因此，從別人那里學(xué)不到什么，漸漸地失去自己的優(yōu)勢(shì)。

　　我們應(yīng)該做的是埋怨的反面——表?yè)P(yáng)。一丁點(diǎn)表?yè)P(yáng)勝過(guò)許多批評(píng)的話語(yǔ)。心地善良的人尊敬、欣賞別人的辛苦工作，他為別人的成就和成功表示祝賀，感到高興，就像自己的成就一樣，給以高度評(píng)價(jià)。與此同時(shí)，他也得到別人的尊重和欣賞。

　　讓我們少埋怨多表?yè)P(yáng)，讓世界充滿良好的愿望。