同伴壓力的影響 Influence of Peer Pressure
Peer pressure means the influence given by a group of people around you, such as, parents, friends, classmates, teachers and so on. Their influence will affect your attitude, behavior, conception or decision. As every side has two sides, this influence also has two sides. Let me explain my reasons.
同伴壓力是指自己周?chē)娜怂纬傻膲毫Γ热�，父母，朋友，同學(xué)，老師等。他們的影響會(huì)影響到你的態(tài)度，行為，觀念或者決定。正如事物都是有兩面性的，這樣的影響也是一樣的。讓我給我的觀點(diǎn)吧。
For one thing, influence of peer pressure has positive effect. It depends on the specific thing. Sometimes, the influence of pressure will promote me get progress. For instance, my deskmate does well in one math exam, while I fall far behind her. As we are deskmates, i can’t let others look down on me. So i will take her as my good example to fight. And then next time, I can get a good mark by my effort. Take my parents as another example, they like clean. They don’t have the habit to throw rubbish at will. I won’t have this habit either living with them.
一方面，同伴壓力的影響有積極的一面。這要具體情況而定。有時(shí)候同伴壓力的影響會(huì)促進(jìn)我們進(jìn)步。比如，我同桌在一次數(shù)學(xué)考試中成績(jī)突出，而我卻落后她很多。因?yàn)槲覀兪峭�，我不能讓別人看低我。所以我會(huì)把她當(dāng)成是我的榜樣來(lái)奮斗。之后下一次考試，我也可以通過(guò)自己的努力取得一個(gè)好成績(jī)。還有以我父母為例，他們喜歡干凈。他們不會(huì)有亂丟垃圾的習(xí)慣。和他們生活在一起我也不會(huì)養(yǎng)成那樣的習(xí)慣的。
For another, influence of peer pressure has negative effect. Sometimes the influence will be bad. For example, if my friends ask me to skip class to watch a basketball match with them, i go with them, even i don’t have that thought before. And one of my friends has gone through a lot, he always try to convince me that money is very important. As time passes, i may change my conception.
另一方面，同伴壓力的影響也有消極的一面。有時(shí)候同伴壓力的影響會(huì)有不好的影響。比如，如果我朋友叫我逃課陪他們?nèi)タ辞蛸�，盡管之前我沒(méi)這想法，但是我可能會(huì)和他們一起走的。還有我一個(gè)朋友因?yàn)榻?jīng)歷了很多，總是跟我說(shuō)金錢(qián)的重要性。慢慢的，我也許會(huì)改變我的觀念。
In summary, the influence of peer pressure has positive and negative sides. We have to advocate the good side and avoid the negative. We have to be clear about what is right and what is wrong and firm our position.
總之，同伴壓力的影響有積極的也有消極的影響。我要提倡好的方面，避免不好的一面。我就得明辨是非，堅(jiān)定立場(chǎng)。