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朋友—記一次課前
什么是朋友?誰(shuí)是你最好的朋友?你了解他(她)嗎?
在千萬(wàn)年之中,在時(shí)間的無(wú)邊荒野里,沒(méi)有早一步,也沒(méi)有晚一步,剛巧趕上;于千萬(wàn)人之中,你遇見(jiàn)了你所遇見(jiàn)的人,他(她)也許就是你的朋友。
人生短短幾十年,不要給自己留下什么遺憾才好。想笑的時(shí)候就笑,想哭的時(shí)候就哭,把不盡人意,不順心的事一次性、干干凈凈的發(fā)泄出來(lái),但不快樂(lè)、傷心、難過(guò)全都只是過(guò)程,惟有快樂(lè)才是終點(diǎn),千萬(wàn)不要把世事都看得太完美!
如果朋友讓你生氣,那只能說(shuō)明你還在意你們之間的感情,也許他(她)就是你最好的朋友,為什么不把心放寬點(diǎn)呢?
知道嗎?什么是益友?什么是損友?
我認(rèn)為益友就是為了朋友兩肋插刀的人,當(dāng)然具體情況又具體分析,為什么事而兩肋插刀有是另一回事了;而損友就是你為了他(她)兩肋插刀,而(她)卻反過(guò)來(lái)插-你兩刀!!
其實(shí),我們活得很艱難。確實(shí),我們既要承受種種來(lái)自外部的壓力,又要面對(duì)自己內(nèi)心的困惑。在苦苦掙扎中,如果有人向你伸出援助之手,投以理解的目光(而這個(gè)人就是你的益友),你就會(huì)感到一種來(lái)自原始生命的暖意。
有些事情我們無(wú)法控制,所以我們只好控制自己。雖然有些人很可惡,有些人很卑鄙,但當(dāng)我們?cè)O(shè)身處地的為他們著想時(shí),才知道,他們其實(shí)比我們還可憐,所以,請(qǐng)?jiān)從愫捱^(guò)的人,原諒那些壞人,所謂的好人!
生活中,不斷有人離開(kāi)或出現(xiàn),而我也即將離開(kāi)這個(gè)舞臺(tái),于是,看見(jiàn)的,看不見(jiàn)了;記住的,遺忘了;生活中也不斷有得到和失落,于是,看不見(jiàn),看見(jiàn)了;遺忘的,記住了。它們就這樣交替著,更改著,不知疲倦。
然而,看不見(jiàn)的,是不是就等于不存在呢?
記住了的,是不是就代表永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)消失?
而我們是不是應(yīng)該記住該記住的,遺忘該遺忘的,改變能改變的,接受不能改變的呢?
我不知道我現(xiàn)在做的哪些是對(duì)的,哪些又是錯(cuò)的,所以我現(xiàn)在能做的就是盡力做好每一件事。
能沖刷一切的除了眼淚就是時(shí)間。
最好我告訴大家一個(gè)心得體會(huì):同學(xué)只有1年或2年,最多3年,而朋友有一輩子!!!
never give up
nothing is difficult if you put your heart on it. nothing is easy if you don’t try your best.
we often hear people say, “never give up.” this can be encouraging words and words of determination. a person who believes in them will keep trying to reach his goal no matter how many times he fails. in my opinion, the quality of determination to succeed is an important one to have. therefore, i believe that we should never give up.
one reason is that if we give up too easily, we will rarely achieve anything. it is not unusual for us to fail in our first attempt at something new, so we should not feel discouraged and should try again. besides, if we always give up when we fail, we will not be able to develop new skills and grow as people. another reason we should never give up is that we can learn from our mistakes only if we make a new effort. if we do not try again, the lesson we have learned is wasted. finally, we should never give up because as we work to reach our goals, we develop confidence, and this confidence can help us succeed in other areas of our lives. probably the greatest example of persistence is abraham lincoln. born into poverty, lincoln was faced with defeat throughout his life. he lost eight elections, twice failed in busineand suffered a nervous breakdown.